Loving is easy but yet it comes with a lot.
Being in a relationship can be challenging.
The first few months of dating may feel like heaven on earth ,it is a good feeling after all. You somehow wish that the feeling you have never dies out but to some it dies out even on the couple's what supposed to be the "honeymoon phase" ,looking at someone else's relationship. People are quick to judge.
Relationships take effort to maintain, and you won't always be happy with your partner.
Even if you love each other, if you have fundamentally different values, a breakup may be the best option.Everyone knows relationships are hard, and take effort to maintain, and sometimes disappoint you.However when are disappointed ,do not give up on love. The person you were with was just not the one for you.
At times you would actually find out that ,when you are in love you end up missing all the red flags which will affect the relationship in the long run.We sometimes feel unappreciated by our lovers because they are so comfortable with you ,that you even end up seeking for attention elsewhere.
Sometimes you will be miserable in the relationship cause its not always great in the love department as we always see in movies.The most huge mistake we tend to make in a relationship,is having an ego and communicating effectively. In any relationship,communication is the key.Let one another know how you feel constantly. In an argument do not walk away without getting to the bottom of things.
Sacrificing is also an important element in a relationship,you need to be with who can make time for you and would rather be with you than to have 'drinks' with the boys or go out 'shopping' with her girls. At times we are demanding and require so much attention. It comes with love. When we look into things,the perfect one does not exist. They only exist in your dreams,you are dealing with people who have imperfections.All you can do on your side is to love their imperfections regardless.
Above everything else,your heart is always right.Follow and protect your heart.Even when your brain might tell you something,just do as your heart says. Love can be a challenge but loving is very easy. When you love someone,love them with pure intentions and for who they are not just for their looks cause that's not going to take you anywhere in life.
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